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发信人: blackdragon (黑龙), 信区: Feeling
标  题: 平淡如水[转载]
发信站: 听涛站 (Mon May  3 04:43:56 1999), 转信

作者:Joaquin (smth)


平淡如水, 那是怎样的一种境界？                                                   
                                                                                 
总听人说：友情可以是平淡的，毕竟“君子之交淡如水”呀；                           
然而爱情则不然，总应该是轰轰烈烈的，不可平淡如友情，                             
否则就缺乏了激情。                                                               
                                                                                 
然而自己却总觉得只有平淡才是永恒的。所谓的轰轰烈烈和                             
激情，无论如何让人着迷和激动，总是短暂的；只有那或许                             
看起来若有若无的平平淡淡的藏在一个人内心最深处的感情，                           
才是真正的永恒。                                                                 
                                                                                 
我无法保证，我一定能够最终找到那份淡淡的、而却意味悠长                           
的感情。但我却无法让自己放弃这样的梦想，梦想着那份平淡                           
的永恒和永恒的平淡。                                                             
                                                                                 
不说“今生无梦”，却喜欢说“人生如梦”，其实是差不多的，                         
倘若人生处处如梦，那也就处处无梦了。                                             
                                                                                 
或许不同的人，永远不可能对此持有相同的看法。其实归根结底                         
还是一个人的性格所决定的。                                                       
                                                                                 
正如“所有的悲剧归根结底都是性格的悲剧”。                                       
                                                                                 
                                                         

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